{"id":13488,"date":"2023-08-29T06:56:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-29T12:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/?p=13488"},"modified":"2023-08-22T12:23:34","modified_gmt":"2023-08-22T18:23:34","slug":"understanding-matresence-the-word-every-new-mother-needs-to-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/understanding-matresence-the-word-every-new-mother-needs-to-know\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding matresence \u2013 the word every new mother needs to know"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.positive.news\/society\/modern-motherhood-matrescence-lucy-jones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"Positive.News\">Positive.News<\/a>  | by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.positive.news\/author\/lucyjones\/\">Lucy Jones<\/a> | August 2, 2023 | matresence | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/health-and-dental-insurance.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"Health Insurance\">Health Insurance<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/app.usecanopy.com\/c\/Shield-Insurance-Agency\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"Start A Quote!\">Start A Quote!<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During pregnancy and early motherhood, women undergo seismic psychological and physiological changes, yet this life-altering transition is neglected by society. Now the emerging concept of \u2018matresence\u2019, like adolescence, is opening up a new conversation about the bind of modern motherhood, helping to birth a new mothering culture<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before I had my first child, I had little idea about what becoming a mother would entail. I thought pregnancy was a straightforward physical process with a few \u2018hormonal\u2019 days. I thought that I would still be the same person when she was born. The experience of motherhood from a mother\u2019s perspective hadn\u2019t interested me before, I thought it was boring, banal. The proper work happened in an office. Most of us regard it this way: just look at that prefix in \u201cjust a stay-at-home mum\u201d. I was overjoyed to be pregnant, but I realized, as the baby grew, that I had picked up strange notions about the value of the work of mothering. It\u2019s no surprise: care work in our society is undervalued, unsupported, and disavowed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, it would be the wildest, hardest, most enlivening, and extreme psychological, existential, social, physical, and socio-political experience of my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the baby was born, I had an uncanny sense that the old me was dead. I found this disturbing. I had gone, but I didn\u2019t know where. My brain and patterns of thought felt different as if I had been rewired. I was expected to breeze through new motherhood, to \u2018bounce back\u2019 and crack on as normal. But I felt as if I\u2019d been cracked open. After a gnarly birth and struggles with breastfeeding, hardcore sleep deprivation and the stress of looking after a newborn, mostly on my own \u2013 as is the way in our society \u2013 began to take a toll on my mind. But I was told to enjoy every minute. What on earth was wrong with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Around that time, I happened upon a word in an article written by a reproductive psychiatrist called Alexandra Sacks. It brought together everything I was feeling. Matrescence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe process of becoming a mother, which anthropologists call \u2018matrescence\u2019, has been largely unexplored in the medical community,\u201d Sacks wrote. The word was like adolescence, and described the emotional, physical, and identity changes having a child triggers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea that what I was feeling was normal filled me with relief. As a science journalist, I started to research the new and growing field of the parental brain. I was shocked by what I found.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong>Neuroscientists have found that the impact of pregnancy on the brain<\/strong><br><strong> is as significant as the impact of adolescence<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>After childhood and adolescence, there is no other time in an adult human\u2019s life course that entails such dramatic psychological and physical change as matrescence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a landmark study published in Nature in 2016, researchers provided evidence, for the first time, that pregnancy renders pronounced changes in brain structure. Soon after, neuroscientists found that the impact of pregnancy on the brain is as significant as the impact of adolescence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned about \u2018zombie cells\u2019. During pregnancy, cells are exchanged between the mother and foetus via the placenta. When the baby is born, some of those cells remain intact in the mother\u2019s body. For decades. Perhaps forever. The phenomenon is called microchimerism. The exchange creates what leading geneticist Dr. Diana Bianchi calls a \u201cpermanent connection which contributes to the survival of both individuals.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.positive.news\/society\/modern-motherhood-matrescence-lucy-jones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"Click here for the full story...\">Click here for the full story on Understanding matresence..<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">More blogs by Shield Insurance Agency<a href=\"https:\/\/www.positive.news\/product\/magazine-subscription\/\"><\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__list wp-block-latest-posts\"><li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/how-life-insurance-can-support-long-term-care-planning-without-replacing-it\/\">How Life Insurance Can Support Long-Term Care Planning Without Replacing It<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/what-happens-if-your-vehicle-is-totaled-understanding-the-auto-insurance-claims-process\/\">What Happens If Your Vehicle Is Totaled, Understanding the Auto Insurance Claims Process<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/why-now-is-a-smart-time-for-michigan-businesses-to-review-liability-coverage-before-spring-foot-traffic-increases\/\">Why Now Is a Smart Time for Michigan Businesses to Review Liability Coverage Before Spring Foot Traffic Increases<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/snowstorms-and-roof-damage-is-your-michigan-home-covered\/\">Snowstorms and Roof Damage: Is Your Michigan Home Covered?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/do-you-need-recreational-insurance-for-your-snowmobile-in-michigan\/\">Do You Need Recreational Insurance for Your Snowmobile in Michigan?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The concept of matresence, like adolescence, is opening up a new conversation about the bind of modern motherhood, helping to birth a new mothering culture<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[148,1,2],"tags":[12,25,2612],"class_list":["post-13488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health-ins-blog","category-insurance","category-shield-blog","tag-health-insurance","tag-healthcare","tag-matresence"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13488"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13488\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13549,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13488\/revisions\/13549"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldagency.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}